{"id":3586,"date":"2018-11-13T15:08:57","date_gmt":"2018-11-13T23:08:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/?p=3586"},"modified":"2018-11-14T08:29:49","modified_gmt":"2018-11-14T16:29:49","slug":"absent-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/absent-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Absent Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I learned that an ex-coworker, Eileen P., had passed away.<\/p>\n<p>She was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last year, and after a lengthy battle she succumbed this morning.<\/p>\n<p>Eileen worked as an admin assistant in our group (information Technology) at the Judicial Council.\u00a0 She always had a smile on her face.\u00a0 Once she volunteered to cut some cards that I had printed out for one of my desktop hockey games, even though it wasn&#8217;t work related.\u00a0 She simply had a desire to be helpful.<\/p>\n<p>She had left our office some years ago, but she had visited once, the last time I had seen her, before her diagnosis, and she was as sweet and happy as she was when she worked with us in IT.<\/p>\n<p>Eileen, I know you&#8217;re at peace now, which gives me and your many friends and family some comfort.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Moments after I found out about Eileen, another co-worker came to my cube to tell me that Michael Q. had passed away this morning as well.<\/p>\n<p>He was also diagnosed with cancer, and while he fought hard and even came back to work, he also lost his battle.<\/p>\n<p>Michael had a gruff exterior, but once you got to know him, you could see his heart of gold.\u00a0 After Mom passed away, he&#8217;d always ask me if I was okay.\u00a0 When the first Mother&#8217;s Day since Mom passed came around, on that Friday before, I bumped into Michael in the elevator.<\/p>\n<p>My mind was heavy with thought about Mom, and out of the blue, Michael said, &#8220;This first one&#8217;s going to be tough.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What?&#8221; I asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Mother&#8217;s Day.\u00a0 It&#8217;ll be tough.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I felt some sense of relief in his words.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Thank you,&#8221; I said.\u00a0 He gave me a nod.<\/p>\n<p>Michael, I&#8217;ll miss lamenting about our Mets and talking shop with you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I learned that an ex-coworker, Eileen P., had passed away. She was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last year, and after a lengthy battle she succumbed this morning. Eileen worked as an admin assistant in our group (information Technology) at the Judicial Council.\u00a0 She always had a smile on her face.\u00a0 Once she volunteered &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/absent-friends\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Absent Friends&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[463],"class_list":["post-3586","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-friends","tag-fuckcancer"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3586","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3586"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3586\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3588,"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3586\/revisions\/3588"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3586"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3586"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saguisag.com\/blogv4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3586"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}